Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Anal Sex

So here comes Sammy with his randomness again. I’ve been thinking to myself about gay sex life and I, for instance, am not the biggest fan of anal sex. To be honest with you guys, I’ve tried it before but it didn’t really work out well. So I kinda gave up on it by then. I did some research coz I was worried that I might be asexual or something… but it turned out that  it’s just a myth that all gay/bi guys enjoy anal sex. Reviews have actually shown that majority of gay guys say that anal is overrated and that what they enjoy the most is actually oral sex.

So please let me know whether you like/enjoy anal sex by answering my poll to the left. And if possible, please comment below about what you think in general…

Thanks a bunch!
Sam

7 comments:

Phunk Factor said...

It depends on preferences....it's perfectly fine not to enjoy anal sex and no harm in enjoying it either!

Just so you know...there ARE people out there who are perfectly fine with having no anal sex at all!

Manu said...

I cant tell cause I'm still a virgin lol but I think ibeould rather give than receive.. XD but who knows lol

Billy said...

It took me a few years to get comfortable with it, but now there is no better feeling than having a hard cock fuck me. But that's just me.

Anonymous said...

dont like it. neither does my bf. dont need it. have to admit, tho, i like to watch it in porn.

wayner said...

Sometimes sexual activities evolve over time. Whatever you and your partner find mutually satisfying. Sex should be playful and fun; anal sex should not feel like an obligation. And sometimes these things get more enjoyable with practice. I am reminded of Oscar Wilde when he inquired about Niagra Falls. He was told that newly-weds go there on their honeymoon. He replied 'that must have been the second biggest disappointment of the evening.' lol. You should Google his quotations cos this was a guy who could see through the bullshit of society. He described his homosexuality as 'the love that dare not speak it's name' (this was in the 1800's). I dunno; does the forbidden nature of homosexuality make it hotter? Like sneaking off to the bushes for some quick oral sex? Homosexuality does not always mean anal sex. bfn - Wayne :)

tman said...

Sam... You ARE having random thoughts lately!! lol Well, I'll tell you, in the relationships in my life, the way I 'played' was so varied that I wouldn't say that anal sex was the norm, especially at first... My adolescent encounters were just as rewarding, tho sometimes confusing, because I didn't know what the hell I was doing at first... Also, there was a hurdle of shame to clear, that sometimes contributed to the anxiety, in real ways, that faded as I became more comfortable with my lover... As a kid, I experimented in different ways that were initiated by my older partner (6 months older, 13 going on 30!! lol). I was clueless about what a blowjob really meant, until I got my 1st one... and, then- OOO!! It's all I could think of!! Well... maybe that's not really true-- I always yearned for the embrace of my lover, especially after sex... If I couldn't spend the night holding or touching him while I slept, I was very sad the next day... I guess it became a type of affirmation for me...
Anyways, the anal sex happened randomly, but, definitely not at first, in any of my relationships, and, I always considered myself a top, but, admittedly, liked a few kinky situations that evolved into me being the bottom... I'll save that for my blog!! Maybe!! lol luv, tman<3

Derric said...

I am not an anal sex person, i prefer to go for anal sex with my bf/ or some one whom i get very much attached.. no idea how else to put it. Basically i think its compatablity & emotions that lead us to it.